Travelling while your I-485 is pending, and the part that actually goes wrong
Leaving the country while an adjustment application is pending abandons it — with two exceptions. You may return on advance parole, or you may return in valid H-1B or L-1 status if you hold it. That second exception is why people in those categories are told they do not strictly need advance parole. What the advice usually leaves out is where the risk really sits: returning in your status requires a *valid visa stamp*, and if yours has expired the trip means a consular appointment. The abandonment rule is rarely what strands somebody. An appointment backlog is. If you have a pending I-485, filing for advance parole alongside it costs nothing extra and means a delayed stamp is not the end of the trip. We cannot tell you whether a specific trip is safe — that depends on your status, your stamp, and the post you would apply at.